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Why you feel like a failure in your 20's

 People always say that your 20s are the best years of your life, and that might be true for the most part, but it can also be the hardest, most frustrating and chaotic time in a person’s life. You might be a senior in college, facing the daunting prospect of life after graduation, whatever the case, you’ll almost definitely feel at least a little lost at some point.



Thoughts such as, ‘Am I working hard enough?’, ‘What am I doing wrong?’ and ‘Will I ever be successful or find my true passion?’ may well be a part of your day. These anxieties can cloud your judgement, making you feel that nothing you do is ever quite good enough. 

Things to remember then you think that you are a failure


  • You’re doing better than you think. Even if you’re excelling at life, you’ll always feel one step behind everyone else. And if you’re still finding your path, that’s totally fine. Failure is a part of life, no one ever got anything worthwhile without trying
  • Failing – in your career, relationships and life in general – can be beneficial. If you do, it more than likely means you took a chance. You will learn your true passion – maybe you didn't get that job, the one you were so sure was perfect for you. Sure, at the time you may be distraught, but it could well be a blessing in disguise, leading you try out something new.
  • Failure is the only way you can grow, it’s how you learn to adapt to changes. Life is going to be full of unpredictable twists and turns but that’s the beauty of it – just because you feel lost now, doesn’t mean you always will. Embrace the unexpected, the way you handle failure now will shape the person you become, someone who isn’t scared of putting themselves out there.   
  • Finally believe in what YOU can do. We have unreal expectations for our 20s, which can only lead us to feelings of insecurity. Even if a journey is full of heartache and disappointment, it will shape the best version of you. Nothing come easy ever lasts, so enjoy the struggle and stumble a little, but always get back up and 


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